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Mommy’s Shouldn’t Be Allowed to Get Sick…

Tuesday, October 20th, 2009

On Sunday afternoon at 4pm, Travis packed me up and sent me off for some alone time.  It’s a new thing we are trying out to help my sanity.  So, I went to our local coffee shop and did some work on the computer.  At 6pm, they closed up shop, so I crossed the street to the burger joint across the street and sat outside to enjoy reading one of my magazines and to eat a gourmet burger.  But….something wasn’t right.  I wasn’t really enjoying myself and I didn’t feel right.  I only had a couple of bites, packed up the rest and headed home.

I was back around 6:30pm and Travis was wondering why I was back so soon…well, little did I know…

I was about to get sick…really sick.  It was basically like having food poisoning on steroids…but, it wasn’t food poisoning, it was the flu.

Blake had been battling it for a couple of days and Travis was complaining of a stuffed up nose.

Then I got knocked down with stomach stuff, a fever, chills, aches and all that comes with that.

That night Brook got a fever too.

Four sick Newman’s in the house is not fun and Mommy’s really should never be sick.  Travis helped me out yesterday, but today he gave me a fair warning of only helping out a bit…”I have to make money dear.”

Um…well, this house can’t run if I’m knocked down by the flu dude!

I remember those times when the hardest part about being sick was getting to the grocery store to get all of the remedies I needed before I hunkered down in my bed for three days.  I miss those days.

Good news though, we are on the mend and hopefully Brook will be able to get back to school by Thursday…even though she is sick, she is going stir crazy and I honestly don’t have a lot of energy to entertain since I’m trying to get better too.

There should be a rule that Mommy’s are not allowed to get sick…because the family just doesn’t work when she’s down.

Hopefully tomorrow my family and I will feel healthy and terrific…here is to hoping!

Halloween Artwork with Cotton Balls and Q-Tips…

Sunday, October 18th, 2009

This past week at Brook’s school, I noticed one of the classes working on this skeleton project and decided I would do it with Brook.  On Saturday night, Brook was bored and said she wanted to do an art project and I actually felt awesome knowing I had this one in my back pocket…it’s super easy and even your husband will have fun doing it, case in point…

Brook and Travis Working On Their Skeleton

Brook and Travis Working On Their Skeleton

Here is what you will need:

Halloween Skeleton Art Project

  • Black Construction Paper
  • Cotton Balls
  • Q-Tips
  • Scissors
  • Glue
  • Hole Puncher
  • String or Ribbon
  • White Marker
  • Black Stickers or Paint Pen for Face

1 – Glue the head cotton ball on first.  Glue one whole Q-tip underneath head for the body and then glue second cotton ball under Q-tip to represent the pelvis area.

2 – Cut off the tips of 4 Q-tips and then cut them in half.  Glue them on the right and left of the long “body” Q-tip…they are representing ribs.  Tip:  if you put the glue on the paper first and then put the Q-tip on, it seems to be easier.

3 – Glue two leg Q-tips under the “pelvis” cotton ball and glue 2 Q-tip arms by the ribs.  Use any black stickers you have or some type of paint pen from the craft store to make a face on the skeleton.  Or, leave it faceless…your choice.

4 – Use the white pen to put your name on your piece of art.  Make two hole punches on the top of the paper and string the ribbon through the hole punches and tie it off.  This is so you can hang your art work.

5 – Find a fun place to show it off…

Here is what the finished product could look like…

Skeleton Project

Skeleton Project

This is how happy my family was making these fun guys!

Brook Doing Her Halloween Art

Brook Doing Her Halloween Art

The Artists Showing Off Their Masterpieces

The Artists Showing Off Their Masterpieces

And this is where are art gallery of skeletons are inside our house…

Our Studio and Gallery

Our Studio and Gallery

Have fun this Halloween season and make some memories…Happy Creativeness!

Memories of Today…

Saturday, October 3rd, 2009

I don’t think you can call this a typical Saturday, but part of the reason I blog is to remember the little things, so one day the children will be able to read about their childhood.

Today was ordinary, special and fun.  Travis took the kids out this morning to give me a small break and it’s funny because you would think I would use that time for doing something special for me like a pedicure, or to go out shopping by myself (which I dream of) or I would catch up on my to-do list.  But, every time he is nice and takes the kids off my hands for a couple of hours, all I really ever do is sleep.  It kind of feels like a waste of this precious “me” time, but inevitably I always end up taking a nap.  It did feel great and I slept well and even though I really should do those other things, sleeping always wins.

They ended up coming back early today cuz Brook has a small accident and hit her nose into some flagstone…she’s fine, she just has a nifty bruise on the bridge of her nose.  Nothing boo-boo bunny couldn’t fix :) .

Then later on we took the kids to the park and it was great because the weather today was beautiful.  It’s finally starting to be the temperature others get envious about.  Warm in the sun, cool in the shade and perfect at night.  In my opinion, from now until the end of May, Phoenix is the best weather around.

At the park we all played and met some nice neighbors.  And for the first time, Blake played in the sand.  He was interested in the texture and although a little got into his mouth…he didn’t freak out about it the way Brook did the first time she played in sand.  Funny thing is Brook now loves to get dirty and she could play with sand and rocks all day, every day and be completely happy.

When we walked back to our street we ran into Matt, Corey and Sam.  And while we were chit-chatting the rest of the street found their way out of their homes.  It was great…this is why we love living on this street.  We love hanging out with our neighbors while all the kids play together.  We caught up with everyone, cooed over the new babies that were born this year (there were four on our street alone) and made plans to hang out more.  We ended up having dinner with Katy, Ryan and Makenna which made it a perfect ending to this Saturday.

So all in all, it wasn’t an overly significant day…if I didn’t write about it, I’d eventually forget the details.  But, it was a wonderful day.

A Perfect Summer Afternoon…

Friday, September 4th, 2009
Brook Playing in the Fountains at Desert Ridge

Brook Playing in the Fountains at Desert Ridge

Today after I picked Brook up from school I took the kids to Desert Ridge as a special Friday treat.  We went to the toy store, had a snack at Rubio’s (Brook’s favorite) and then I let Brook splash around in the fountains.  There is nothing better than watching a smiling and laughing little girl cool off on a hot summer afternoon.

Blake Laughing as Daddy is Tickling His Belly

Blake Laughing as Daddy is Tickling His Belly

Blake was content sitting in his stroller, watching all the other kids splash around and have some fun.  Later, Travis met us and then we all went out to dinner and spent a wonderful summer evening together.

It’s moments like this that make me…

A) Fall in love with my husband all over again

B) Fall in love with my children even more

C) Reminds me that nothing is more important than family

D) Reminds me that my life is wonderful, amazing, happy and complete.

First Tuesday Night of the Season…

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009

When Brook was born, I started a tradition called Tuesday Night Dinners.  It is a mandatory dinner at the Newman’s house once a week where my Mom (aka Grammy) and Shannon (when she isn’t traveling the globe), has to attend.  This way in all of our busy lives we know that we will see each other once a week to break bread together.  The only way you can get out of Tuesday Night Dinner is by being sick, out of town, a job emergency (and really I don’t like this one and get pissed when work gets in the way) or death.

Sometimes we have other guests pop in for these dinners…either people in from out of town, neighbors, friends and/or anyone who wants some of the Newman warmth and hospitality…I can always find one more place setting for the people I love.  It’s just a great way to reconnect with the people in my life, plus I usually make something a little more special than usual…I get to be creative!

Another tradition is the clinking of the forks.  Before we all eat, we clink forks as a means of starting the meal…kind of like a celebratory clink of the champagne glass if you can imagine.  Then we also go around the table and tell everyone one good thing about our day.  It’s a wonderful evening!

This dinner, Shannon was still in Madison, so she was not here…But, we were lucky to have my Mom and my neighbor Karissa over for dinner.

Karissa with Baby Blake

Karissa with Baby Blake

This Tuesday I tried another adapted recipe from the Clean Food cookbook.  This one was Green Beans and Sweet Corn with Summer Vinaigrette.  Again, I added some other things to give it my own touch and it was a wonderful summer salad/side dish.  I served it with a Pepper Crusted Flank Steak with a Red Wine Cream Sauce.

Peppered Grilled Flank Steak with Red Wine Cream Sauce and Green Bean and Sweet Corn Salad with Summer Vinagarette

Peppered Grilled Flank Steak with Red Wine Cream Sauce and Green Bean and Sweet Corn Salad with Summer Vinagarette

For dessert I did a fresh Mission Fig Plate with some great cheeses and dark chocolate.  We served that with a Vintage Port.

Fig and Cheese Plate with Dark Chocolate, Vanilla Balsamic Vinegar and Vintage Port

Fig and Cheese Plate with Dark Chocolate, Vanilla Balsamic Vinegar and Vintage Port

Here is the Wine List from this evening:

Marianna 2005 – Cabernet Sauvignon, Merlot, Cabernet Franc and Petit Verdot blend – FANTASTIC smooth, delish!

Peirano Estates 2007 – Cabernet Sauvignon – good but needed to have the tannins mellow for a couple of more years.

V. Santui Vintage Port – 1999 – Sweet and a great with our dessert…love this winery!  A must stop every time I go to Napa.

Cheese Platter List:

Manchego El Trigal 12 months – great salty and was wonderful with a drizzle of vanilla infused balsamic

Brillat Savarin Triple Creme – Fantastic, salty, creamy and buttery….If you can find it, buy it…I got mine at Whole Foods

Fresh Mission Figs

Vanilla Infused Balsamic Vinegar from The Lake Geneva Olive Oil Company

Ghirardelli Dark Chocolate with Madagascar Vanilla 60% Cacao

My Take on Terry Walters Summer Salad

My Take on Terry Walters Summer Salad

Recipe for Green Bean and Sweet Corn with Summer Vinaigrette by Terry Walters with some adaptation

Veggies:

1 1/2 cups corn, fresh or frozen, steamed and cooled

2 pounds fresh green beans, trimmed and steamed and cooled

1 pint assorted cherry, pear, heirloom tomatoes halved – any color

1 stalk of celery hearts chopped – my addition

1 yellow sweet bell pepper – my addition

Herbs / Cheese

Fresh Parsley – To Taste

Fresh Basil – To Taste

Parmesan – shaved to taste, put on top of salad – my addition

Vinaigrette:

1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil (Terry says 2 tbsp, but I added way more veggies, so I added more oil)

1/4 cup red wine vinegar (Terry says 2 tbsp for this too)

2 garlic cloves minced (Terry calls for 1 clove)

The juice from half a lemon

2 tsp dried oregano – my addition

Salt and Pepper to Taste

Steam corn and green beans to desired tenderness.  If using cobs, after they cool cut corn off of the cobs.  In a bowl add cooled green beans and corn.  Put in diced yellow peppers, celery hearts and tomatoes. Then add the chopped parsley and basil.

In a separate bowl, whisk the olive oil, red wine vinegar, lemon juice, minced garlic, dried oregano, salt and pepper.

Add the vinaigrette to the bowl of veggies and herbs, gently toss till the vinaigrette coats the whole salad.  Place in serving bowl and add shaved Parmesan.  Serve chilled and great as leftovers for lunch the next day!