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A Short But Sweet Update…

Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009

So, we have been busy little bees here in the Newman house, which leaves very little time to blog, but since I wanted to get some stuff written down as to not forget…here we go!

Milestones:

Blake’s two bottom teeth are coming up!  Oh and he is a drooling, crying, crazy explosion in the pants mess right now.  The only thing I do is give him as many chew toys as possible and some baby Tylenol for the discomfort.

As for the explosions…they have been so gross.  Sometimes your mind can turn off and you don’t realize that in fact your hands are elbow deep in shit, and then there are other times when you are trying to hold back your own puke because it is far too gross and smelly.  Well, lately it’s been the latter, he’s had some doozies!  Ah, it’s all part of the parenting package….itty bity baby with more crap than anyone could imagine!  I mean seriously, where do they hold it all before the explosion and it’s amazing that they still have their body weight once the filling of mulitple diapers are over.

Another thing he can now do is roll from his back to his side.  The funny thing is he likes to roll, but he doesn’t like to be on his stomach, so after the roll, he’ll scream for you to move him back to his back and then he just rolls right over again.  Sounds funny, but in reality I feel like telling him to make up his mind and stick with it!

As for Brook, well to my Mother’s happiness, I have gotten her hooked on old Hollywood musicals through instant watch on Netflix.  So far she’s watched Singing in the Rain and An American in Paris.  It is really cute to see her mimic the movie once it’s over, dancing around and being fancy.  Maybe she’ll want to be a dancer…only time will tell

Speaking of Mother

The reason why we have been so busy is that my Mom and John came to visit for a few days.  We were very busy people, going on beer tours, seeing the Chicago Symphony Orchestra play at the outdoor theater Ravinia, going on a huge shopping spree at the outlet malls, taking John fishing, eating every single Wisconsin food there is and well the best is saved for last…Tequila Fest 2009.

See, Jose and I were deeply in love when I was in college…we’d party all of the time, I loved him…then, well I got sick one too many times off of his cheep ass and well, we divorced…I have been tequila free ever since, until…

The family BBQ.

I thought it would be fun to have a BBQ for my Mom and John and invite my neighbors, my in-laws and my Shannon.  It would be a traditional Brat and Corn fest and we’d drink some Brandy Old Fashion Sweets and Mojitos.  Sounds innocent until Shannon shows up with two bottles  of very nice, very pricey tequila.  And for all who don’t know Shannon, she isn’t a drinker, so when she feels like it, I get on the bandwagon.

I should have let this bandwagon continue on…Oh my heaven!  It would have been fine if I only took one or two shots like I planned to…but, that didn’t happen, because Jose’s richer Uncles tasted so yummy that I went just an tini-tiny bit overboard.

There are pictures….lots and lots of them, but you know what?  I think I will keep them to myself this time as to not overly embarrass myself.

Let’s just say that my brief love affair with Jose’s Uncle(s) are over…I divorced them too!  One cannot be a parent and have that kind of relationship with tequila or any other form of alcohol.  Thank god Travis was somewhat responsible that night because there was no way I could take care of my children the next day.  The hangover from hell was not my idea of fun…it lasted for two and a half days!

So that’s it for now.  We are heading Up-North to the Carani Lake Cabin for a few days, so you won’t be hearing from me again for a bit…but, I’m sure I’ll have some fun stories when we get back.  TTFN!

Pat’s Run 2009

Monday, April 20th, 2009

This past weekend marked the beginning of my return to running.  For the past three weeks I have been training to run in Pat’s Run which holds a very special spot in my heart.  For those of you who don’t know, this run is to honor Pat Tillman’s life.  What makes this such a special event for me is really two things.  First, Pat Tillman played football for the Arizona Sun Devils while I was at school.  He was a part of my college experience even though we never knew each other.  The 1996 team that took us to the Rose Bowl is one of the most fun football memories that I have.  I was right there in the stands, cheering away when we shut out Nebraska and I was there when we carried the goal posts down Mill Ave., when Mill Ave. was still eclectic and bohemian.  Having an undefeated season was amazing!  He was part of the dream team, the same team that I cried a little for when we lost the Rose Bowl in post-season.  The look on Jake the Snakes face just broke my heart…but, overall it was an amazing year!  So every time I run this event, it takes me back to some great times that I once had.

The other reason why this event is so special, is that it really encompasses family.  For three years I have done this event with my Mom and Brook.  After the main “adult” race, they have a kids race that Brook has been apart of.  Here is a picture time line of her being in these races.

Brook and Jolene Pat Tillman 2007

Brook and Jolene at Pat Tillman 2007

Brook in Deep Thought 2007

Brook in Deep Thought 2007

In 2007, she was a 1 year old.  Now given, she was getting close to 2, but she was still such a sweet baby in my eyes…oh, who are we kidding, she is still my baby.   I am pretty sure I carried her most of the way during the .42 kid race.  But, it was the foundation for the future.

Brook Running the Pat Tillman Race 2008

Brook Running the Pat Tillman Race 2008

Brook and Mommy at Pat Tillman 2008

Brook and Mommy at Pat Tillman 2008

Here we are in 2008.  She is now 2 years old and I am pretty sure she ran most of the .42 mile race this time.  She was so cute with her arms pumping and excitement in her eyes.  She stole the show with her determination and cuteness.

Brook Running at Pat Tillman Race 2009

Brook Running at Pat Tillman Race 2009

Brook and Mommy Pat Tillman 2009

Brook and Mommy Pat Tillman 2009

Here we are 2009 and look how my baby has grown.  She is now three, going on thirty!  With a mind of her own and a love of running established, she ran the whole .42 race this time by herself.  I didn’t carry her once.  With the same happiness and determination, she completed this year with a stellar performance.  She is already asking when are we going to run again.  I can’t wait till she is old enough to run next to me in the “big” race and to finish right along side me.  That is if I can keep up with her.

Here are some more pictures from this years race…

Cece (my Mom), Me and Bill after the race...I averaged 10:15 minute miles.  Not bad for 3 weeks of training.

Cece (my Mom), Me and Bill after the race...I averaged 10:15 minute miles. Not bad for 3 weeks of training.

Brook Already Loving on the Football Players

Brook Already Loving on the Football Players

Brook Loving on More ASU Football Players

Brook Loving on More ASU Football Players

Travis Loving His Free Rubio's Fish Taco

Travis Loving His Free Rubio's Fish Taco

Travis, Mom, Brook and I Inside Sun Devil Stadium

Travis, Mom, Brook and I Inside Sun Devil Stadium

So as you can see, this race holds a special place in my heart.  It’s 4.2 miles of memories, running and family.  It’s a healthy and exciting tradition that really honors an amazing hero…Pat Tillman.  To give his life to our country and for his wife and family to dedicate their lives to promoting the legacy of leadership through action, I am proud to say that I once went to school, to ASU, with Pat Tillman.